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I've been ask to speak on issues that relate to relationships. For some reason, I feel that the women of the world need to get something off of their breast or sometimes put something on it. So by all means men and women feel free to vent whether good or bad.
Family, just know that there will be those that disagree with you male and female so prepare for a backlash if the topic is super sensitive. Try to keep it clean!
Thoughts by Mlsahe26.......
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The Difficulties of Communication and Understanding
1) Are relationships supposed to be hard? If they are, does that mean, it is really not a match?
2) For those of you that got married, was it easy in the beginning and got harder after marriage or was it hard in the beginning and got easier after the commitment was made?
3)Isn't it just easier to deal with someone that has known you were a child and has been in your life for a long period of time where you don't feel like you have to explain yourself?
ONE MORE TOPIC (To HELP with Discussions)
For men out there---
What would be your intial reaction if a woman said......
I know I have a mouth and an attitude to match.
But I need someone in my life that understands that.
I can't have an overly sensitive man who will cry before I would.
I need someone to understand me and say .... 'It's just Dorie'
Let me say what I am going to say and be done with it
I don't hold grudges.. so I will be ok in a day or so.
I am not going to walk on egg shells.
I need someone who can hold me down and put me in my place when I need it. You need to know when and when not to.
I couldn't date anyone with a temper because he would repeatedly whoop my ass for my mouth. I know it.
I am not going to shut up so that is that.... take me or leave me. Respect is EARNED.....
I would say that you are my kind of woman.
To respond to the original post. Things are easy only if you aide it.
Example. You have a plant that you love, like, or once liked do you: A) Continue to water and care for it even though watering and caring for it takes time!
Or
B) Just give up on it! Let something you love, like, once liked just die when you could have given a bit more water in this case.
It is easy to give up on things once faced with a challenge. Will you quit everything when it becomes the least bit difficult?
In the case of the plant, what will you do when the soil or pot needs to be changed? My point is things will come up, but how strong will the individual be to deal with the issues head on instead of giving up!
Therefore, relationships are similar to the plant story! You need to pay attention to the needs of one another or the relationship will die! Water your relationship with love and understanding.
ml'sahe 26
Pretty cool blog you've got here. Thanks for it. I like such themes and anything that is connected to them. I would like to read a bit more soon.
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